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Get to Know Ki'tay D. Davidson Through those Who Know & Love Him

7/21/2024

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watercolor image of Ki'tay D. Davidson by Elyssa Siegel. Ki'tay is holding a microphone with one hand and snapping with his other. He is wearing his favorite "do you even roll bro?" t shirt with his arms out and mustard orange jeans with a black leather hat turned backwards. (and the hand of Allie Cannington, his co-presenter and best friend) holding a microphone next to him. Allie cant be fully seen. Art gifted to TL & Allie in 2015 after Ki'tay's passing.

 
​December 2, 2024 marks Ki'tay D. Davidson's tenth year as an Ancestor.

In honor of his tenth year as an Ancestor, we hope to share some news with our communities about what his mother and loved ones have been working on to honor him and share a couple of his photos, videos, offerings that have never been made public. 

This is an invitation to get know Ki'tay D. Davidson through his and his communities' own expressions.

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Important note: Ijeoma Oluo and HarperOne / HarperCollins' recent "book", Be A Revolution (edited by Rakesh Satyal) misrepresents Ki'tay D. Davidson and commodifies his death alongside many other Black/Indigenous, disabled, queer, GNC/trans organizations, collectives, communities, ancestors and living peoples. Information about Ki'tay D. Davidson in this text is inaccurate.  His mother, family, friends, communities, and I (his partner) ask you not share any information about him from this "book." Oluo is represented by Lauren Abramo of Dystel, Goderich & Bourret LLC.

​Please only share information about Ki'tay  from Ki'tay and our communities. We will be sharing more information here and on 
Disability Visibility Project soon. We thank you in advance for your support.

​POETRY FROM KI'TAY:

This poem has never before been released to the public. It was released on the occasion of StaceyFest, on July 20, 2024. First electronically drafted by Ki'tay on September 5, 2014, then entitled Embracing masculinity to heal.,  Ki'tay landed on this final title, to be trans, to be a flower (intergenerational healing and transformation). One of Stacey Park Milbern's last acts of solidarity was to develop a fellowship in honor of Ki'tay.

Listen to this poem in spoken English 
here; and this poem in English text here. ​
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​A poem by Ki’tay D. Davidson first electronic draft created on September 5, 2014. Ki’tay passed away on December 2, 2014. It is unclear if he had finalized this poem. Read by Talila A. Lewis, July 19, 2024 for StaceyFest.

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An image of Ki'tay D. Davidson on the campus of American University holding up a pink sign that says I Aspire to . . . [individuals can write whatever they want in response, Ki'tay wrote]: redefine masculinity. In the background there are people standing chatting with each other in small groups of three or two. Ki'tay is a Black young person with dark brown skin, a teenie afro a gray hoodie and a brown satchel with his books on one shoulder. Photo circa 2012/2013.

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​CONVOS WITH KI'TAY!
  • Disability Justice is LGBT Justice: A Conversation with Movement Leaders, Ki'tay in conversation with Allie Cannington, Dylan Orr, hosted by Emmett recorded July 2014, released July 2015.
  • Ki'tay presenting at the 2013 White House Champions of Change Awards Panel, July 25, 2013.
  • Championing Our Communities – An Open Letter, August 15, 2013.
  • ​Angry About The White Lesbians Suing For Having A Black Child? You’re Missing Something, Black Girl  Dangerous, October 6, 2014.
  • Harness Power of Diversity, circa May 12, 2014.
  • Heart, Diligence, and Sacrifice, July 24, 2013.
  • Reframing History and Reimagining Our Future, June 18, 2013.
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Image of Ki'tay D. Davidson in a dark pinstriped suit with a blue and yellow bowtie looking straight into the lens of the camera and smiling with his spirit. He is confident and surrounded by green nature. Photo by Talila A. Lewis

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​TRIBUTES TO KI'TAY:
  • Death While Trans: Miss-Gendering, "Dress Up" & Casual "Family" Violence, by Talila A. Lewis
  • Crip Camp + ADOBE Fellowship (a tribute to Ki'tay from Stacey Park Milbern just before her passing, May 2022)
  • On the occasion of the First Anniversary of Your Graduation, by Talila A. Lewis
  • For Ki'tay  Who Loves Us, by Talila A. Lewis (original version; modified version also available in First Person Stories from the 21st Century, Alice Wong, ed.) 
  • Celebrating the Legacy of Ki'tay D. Davidson, YO! Disabled & Proud

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#KitayLives
2 Comments
Kerima link
12/5/2024 07:43:35 am

Probably the most loving and healing tribute to a life partner I have read. Ki'tay lives because of you and all who knew and loved him. I wish I had met him.

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Talila
2/26/2025 01:03:20 pm

Thank you, Elder.

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